[tweetmeme]FEAR – Ugh that ugly word and feeling that we tend to adamantly reject. People will do or NOT do almost anything in order to avoid dealing with fear. This is a common denominator for many of my clients when they first come to me. Typically they are afraid of moving forward. Some want to change careers or become an entrepreneur. Some are looking to make life changes in the areas of relationship, personal or spiritual. For some reason they are being called to do something more, different or better. And while it’s a wonderful opportunity to grow, let’s face it, change is scary.
What do you do when you are completely immobilized by fear? You know the feeling, when you wake at 4 am thinking “oh my gosh, how the heck am I going to get through this”. No one hears you, no one gets what you are dealing with and yet YOU know you have to come to a resolution for personal reward and satisfaction. When I work privately with my clients we begin to break down the walls of fear and create a new foundation of self trust and confidence that paves the way towards their desired outcome.
I use a system to conquer fear of moving forward. It’s designed for those struggling with worthiness, readiness, and willingness obstacles. I would like to share a few of the distinctions from this system.
1. Fear is energy – Emotions are energy. Energy can be moved. You are capable of moving energy.
2. You are entitled to your fear – Many of us resist feeling anything other than joy. We have a wealth of emotions and we are entitled to them all.
3. Move through not around your Fear – Pretending you are not afraid will not clear it. Being with your fear and moving through it is the shortest path.
4. Fear is your challenge to be great – Adversity breeds success. So does fear. When you come to the place where you overcome your fear, you will never be the same.
While this is just an outline, these are important to remember the next time you bump up against your fear. Fear can ultimately bring you power if you are committed to being in charge of it. So the next time you wake with that pounding fear, allow yourself the gift of acknowledging it, embracing it then releasing it. Whatever you do, DON’T LET IT STOP YOU!
Would you like to work through your fears of moving forward or know more about private empowerment sessions with me? When the time is right for you to call – I’m here – 954-370-8001
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