Posted in Affirmations, empowerment, Relationship, tagged dating, empowerent, law of attraction, love, love life, manifesting, partner, relationship, starting over on September 7, 2015|
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I‘ll never do that again!
Sound familiar? Often when we leave a relationship it’s because it was unfulfilling at some level. What did we do to attract this? Well, if you have made less then desirable choices up until now, relax, there’s hope.
When we retrain our thoughts to go in the direction of manifesting powerfully, we get the results we want. And we won’t settle for less because we are also training ourselves that we deserve more satisfying partners.
I created Relationship Groundwork to fill in the gaps during the awkward period between relationships. We don’t know whether to start dating or work on ourselves. At the very least, listen to these 200 very empowering and deliberate affirmations to help you truly align with what you want in a mate.
Are you ready for love like you’ve never had? Then be the cause of it by shifting your thoughts from ‘there’s no good ones out there’ to ‘I deserve the best and attract the best’. Imagine what it would feel like to begin thinking in the direction of worthiness and possibility? Imagine waking up each day declaring that your partner is one step closer to being in your life.
Only thoughts that move in the direction you want to go will produce the results you want to produce. Read that last sentence again and again. I teach ‘direction of thought’ to my coaching clients to help them produce miraculous results too. Only it’s not so much miraculous as it is intentional and deliberate thinking.
Not everyone knows how to do this type of thinking so I’ve made it easy for you to start and learn the technique with this Free and powerful download Relationship Groundwork – 200 Affirmations to Prepare for Your Next Relationship. Download yours today and start moving in the direction of these new thoughts and receive the love you so rightly deserve.
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Posted in Coach, empowerment, Perseverance, Relationship, Thought Provoking, tagged choice, Coach, Fran Asaro, life coach, painful relationship, problem relationship, relationship, severing relationship, thrive anyway on June 3, 2011|
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[tweetmeme]Often we find ourselves in a relationship that tugs at our patience. Whether it is due to incompatibility, intolerance, control or disrespect, some people sit uncomfortably with us or downright annoy us.
I remembering hearing for years how important it was to sever such relationships for self preservation. It was a way to relieve ourselves of all the discomfort. While at some level it made sense and still does, eventually you might find yourself disconnecting or running from anyone and anything that challenges you. In time, some of us begin to feel as though all we do is end relationships and wonder if severing is the only answer. Is that you?
There are times when we can’t or no longer want to cut the cord with others. This could be because they are family or co-workers, colleagues or friends. Whatever the reason, you are not willing or able to separate yourself from them. What do you do then? Stay miserable every time you are in their company?
There is another way. It may not be as easy as cutting them off, however, it could restore your sanity when cord cutting is not an option. Severing the AFFECT that others have on you keeps you in the driver’s seat of your life. Let’s face it; people will always get your goat. They will say and do things that annoy you, they will run you off the road, they will be embarrassing to be around and they will suck all of your energy. You can’t kill them all off. So the next best thing – maybe even the most self empowering action – is to release the affect they have on you.
Easier said then done? Yes, it takes practice and intention to carry this out. Once you commit to protecting your own boundaries emotionally and physically, others will no longer have the same impact on you as they once did. People can only affect you when you allow them to infringe on your personal boundary. When you stand strong on what you will and will not let into your own thoughts, feelings and physical self, you become the keeper of your mood, your power and your sense of well being.
Options – sometimes that’s all we need to know in order to feel better in these situations. Knowing that we can choose to sever or not provides a sense of relief. So, the next time you are feeling completely affected by someone else and severing is not possible, know you have one more resource. Know that you are in charge of your boundaries. Know that you can learn to rise above and even beyond the impact others have on you and your world.
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